INTIMACY




IN-TIMACY

Nothing is as sexy as truth.
You can’t make love without taking off your clothes
Just as to resurge, awaken or deepen the lovemaking in your life
you have to keep showing up
as yourself,
completely naked. 

Show up and take it all off
The stories, the grievances, the fear of losing the other
The 'yeah but you should' .. 'I need to..'
The identities.

Nothing kills physical intimacy quicker than stuffing down stories and stale unacknowledged feelings. 
Who wants to make love in a dusty old tiny cupboard?
You want big fields, air, breath, life.. freedom!
Honesty breeds space.
It's not always pretty or romantic
but it's raw, it's pregnant with life and possibility.
If you are willing to be ‘naked’ in your presence together
Then the desire arises to experience the other all the way
"100 % full power".

Can you see the sensuality in being vulnerable?
The excitement of showing up as you are not as you feel you should be?
The good wife, the good husband, the partner who ‘always’ does this or that. Who are you without the shoulds?
People often fear that if they go all the way into finding out who they really are
that they won't get physical with another again.
That somehow spirituality and sensuality are at odds.
But sensuality IS life,
It's the fire of presence, it's what actually keeps you alive.
Whether you have actual sex in your life right now or not is irrelevant ...
It's the merging and oneness from whence your existence arrived.
You've been in a love affair with God from day 1. 
Show up raw and spontaneous with your truth.
Show up with no excuses for your feelings but acceptance of them.
Show up without your neat little comfy lies and hiding holes.
Without your masks and glitter.
Show up willing to embrace the truth of another
without a defence lawyer or a 911 team on standby.
Show up broken, whole, perfect, flawed.
Dancing wildly in the chaos of life,
Its inevitable losses and births going round and round
and see the true beauty that is timeless
ageless.
the shimmer from the ground up. 





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